let us proceed step by step... The first step is to identify that we have an ego and in what manners do we use our ego to hurt others. Or in what way are we egoistic. Yes this has to be identified; that is what is the definition of your ego... I undergo met so many people who never accept that they are egoistic. ok let me tell you how you can identify if you are egoistic and to what extent are you egoistic... If you never apologise first and you never are the first to alter up a conversation with a friend whom you had a fight a little way back shows that you are egoistic to the core of your heart. and it will take you some time unless you tame your ego. this degreee of egoism is found in amongst 90% of the world population. well luckily i am not amongst themm. I always defend and I never feel bad about it... If you are an egoist to such an extent you should first of all explain yourself that you don't degrade yourself by apologising first. Infact it will change magnitude your respect in the eye of the next person and be it your mistake or not go ahead and go away the friendly conversation first.. Don't act for the next person to go and say hi to you.. I know in the begining it will be very difficult but you have to do it. you have to force yourself to do it. unless it becomes a apparel and your ego doesnt hinder your friendship. Just like when you are taming a dog he doesnt want to adapt you but you force him unless it becomes his apparel ,. so tell your ego that it is a go dog and needs to be tamed. yeah!! thaz what you have to do. no1 can train your ego for you. so when you have an arguement with any1next time. make sure you are the first to say hi. or I am sorry.. You may still not be able to identify if you belong to this category or not. you may be amongst those who always say "I" . that is you never like to be wronged. you accept that you can never be mistaken its the next person who is mistaken. well so in this case you have to tell yourself that you are a human. And that HUMAN IS TO ERR!!! you have to say it everyday that you are no super natural being who can never make a mistake. and you must have to go back and analyse the whole issue and identify if any mistakes were made. You should tell yourself everyday in the morning that" I might have made a identify in that issue I had an arguement with that person". say it to yourself everyday and soon you ordain get your ego tamed a bit.. It only needs a comprehend of realisation and a sense of being corrected.. Just like.
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